Fathers Day

Happy Father's Day!!

And happy un-fathers day to all the dead beats, abusers, cruel fathers, those who don't have enough "time" to spend with their kids, and those who simply don't care to. Happy unfathers day to those who have completely forgotten every birthday or holiday their child takes joy in, and have no interest in what their kids are interested in. Happy un-fathers day to all the dads who couldn't even guess at what their kid's favorite color is, let alone their eye color. I hope today is a solid reminder of exactly what kind of person you are, and that you're secure in the knowledge that one day, when they stop searching for some sort of approval from you, they'll realize that they actually hate you. So fuck you, for all the little ones who can't say it.

For those awesome dads, like my husband, who get down on the floor to play, and know what our girl's favorite barbies are, who knows dress sizes, shoe sizes, schedules, rituals, fears, favorites,how to cheer them up on a crappy day, and has kissed hundreds of boo-boos. For those awesome dads who have no sense of embarrassment cause the baby spit up on his shirt (again). For those awesome dads, who are so big, as giants, in the eyes of their kids, and when their kids grow up, they grow to realize that their dad is just another person, but a person they WANT to know, who they WANT in their lives... Happy fathers day. And thank you.